Self Love !!!

What is self-love? How do you acquire it, and why is it so hard to get? What is its importance in one's life?

Now “Self-love” is a very vague idea, the reason is that - “self-indulgence or introvert nature of a person” is seen as self-love by common people.

In more trivial and substandard language “word self-love” is used as a synonymous word to - “Masturbation”.

But at same, Spiritualist see - self-love - as an opportunity to explore the internal world residing inside him
Esoteric see - self-love - as deepening the idea of esoterism into their mind and heart,

Mystic sees -self-love -as the possibility to connect the outer world by expressing his or her mystic ideas and actions.

Psychologist sees - self-love -as a way to communicate with his own repressed and suppressed memories & emotions.

And

Philosopher sees -self-love —as an opportunity to open up a new dimension of self-existence to deny the outer world

So -Self-love has very wide and versatile meaning and one has to identify, oneself what -one is meaning by using the word -self-love.

Self-love is so hard to get - because- one has to identify -what is self-love for oneself first, this is the hardest step in gaining the ability to start self-loving,

There is always a need to have self-love in life. Though “Self-love “ is not important in one’s life at all as such, life doesn’t need-self love to exist. But yes, “by identifying “self-love” one can start to identify love residing into oneself, and thence can start showering it on others. Don't forget, if one is used to love oneself then only one can start loving own’s and other’s life too,

So in short, more than -just Self-love — “Love to Life “ is far important, as who knows the art to “Love to live”, can love to -oneself and to others unconditionally and unfathomably. 

Self Love is just a sign of -better emotional intelligence but “Love to Life” is the true way to express the existence of “Love” by imbibing every breath of life as tranquillity & serendipity

From Dr Nilesh Jaybhaye