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There are a lot of childish articles existing on —issue of seeking personal growth, explaining for developing motive to acquiring Vision on digital media, but no article is explaining a hidden aspect of personal growth which is always overlooked by —personal growth seekers- only to get stuck into trap of depression and nothingness at the end
So following tips are written to reveal those hidden -Traps in seeking personal growth, for the betterment of Personal Growth seekers
1st — Define and identify one's idea of personal growth, as the meaning of personal growth for each and everyone is different and exclusive
Reason — personal growth of the student is different than some spiritual seek then some business doing person than some unemployed person than some sport person,
So it is very much necessary to identify one idea of personal growth as each and everyone needs different -pathways to follow to ensure personal growth
2nd- Personal Growth must be -related to oneself and must not be an issue of comparison to other
Reason — To seek personal growth, one must keep competing and striving with oneself rather than anyone , as an issue of personal growth for each and every one is different as , every individual has unique traits and fallacies of their own
3rd - Issue of personal Growth must self-containing and not just a matter of passion
Reason- When the issue of personal growth is pursued, then one has to surely leave behind or pull away from many things in life, which may be permanently lost from one life for example - if some spirituality seeker wants to grow personally then he or she needs to keep following spiritual path leaving behind all materialistic issues and ones day to day life. And finally, he or she will or will not attain personal growth but he or she will surely loose -Time
So When one wants personal growth then one must be clear for all “ifs and buts” of one's personal growth
4th -Personal Growth is a continuous & demanding process, and one must be prepared for it
Reason - Personal growth is like growing a tree & that will keep growing and as the tree grows it demands more -space and more sunlight too and if both light and space is denied to the growing tree, it takes no time for that huge tree to fall down
For example, if somebody wants personal growth -economically then one must be ready to forget free time, as growing economically one need to invest more time for one business matter, all the time
5th - Personal Growth brings responsibility and answerability and one must be ready for it, for having wish to grow
Reason — when any life form grows in the world then, all its needs and its role in the world, keep changing and turn more complex and complex,—as this is a simple rule of life
For example — When Swami Vivekananda grew spiritually then he has to keep travelling the entire world to keep spreading his message and his ideas of Vedanta to fulfil his responsibility for growing larger than life.
6th - Personal Growth is the birthright of each and everyone, and one must be prepared for it always and just enjoy the process of “Personal Growth” in all of its stages and colours
Reason — “Personal Growth” is not some voluntarily thing or act but it si simple life process it will happen by all mean physically, mentally and socially with each and everyone, but when one seeks “Personal Growth “ actively, then one must be clear that one is not doing right, albeit one is practising life more actively and involving thoroughly into the process of life.
Last but not Least — Seeking personal growth is a very good thing, and everyone must do it actively and smartly, to fulfil one’s life destiny
From:Dr Nilesh Jaybhaye
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